The Wind and Leaves – We Wake Up As Angels But Fall Asleep As Demons

Man must see that nothing really is, but that everything is always becoming and changing. Nothing stands still. Everything is being born, growing and dying. The very instant a thing reaches its height, it begins to decline. The law of rhythm is in constant operation. There is no reality. There is no enduring quality, fixity or substantiality of anything. Nothing is permanent but change. Man must see all things evolving from other things and re-solving him to other things, a constant action or reaction, inflow or outflow, building up or tearing down, creation or destruction, birth and growth and death. Nothing is real, and nothing endures but change.

The Kabala

 

The purpose of Buddhist chanting is to remind us of the sacrifice the Buddha made for his people in order to achieve nobility or enlightenment. Every Sunday, I bow to the Buddha in reverence for disciplines he has shared with me and others all over the world. Buddhist chanting also helps us become more connected to ourselves. During chanting and taking refuge within the Buddha, we’re able to see that all living things are constant. That aging is inevitable. That you’re accountable for your own actions. That you’re all things in this universe and you give thanks for creation and life. That hurting and killing is wrong and you love and cherish all of creation. The Buddha teaches us how you might lose yourself to find yourself. You’ve got to lose your mind to find your mind.

 

We Wake Up As Angels and Fall Asleep As Demons

 

A Buddhist monk once said,

 

“We wake up as angels, and fall asleep as demons.”

 

This is because of our wanting… The monk calls us demons because of our desire for ultimate security. Struggling with the desire to acquire more is probably one of my biggest vices. We’re constantly collecting things – people with influence, clothes, cars and more. We learn this behavior from other adults who are too addicted to security and affluence. Money has become more than just a tool we use in order to survive. Living beyond our means has become a lifestyle choice and it is a choice I readily and eagerly play into by defect. According to Buddhist philosophy, money is nice but it is not necessary for a fruitful life. I think this is the greatest teaching I can learn.

 

Because the truth is, the more we have the more we want more. And when is enough, enough? When do we stop honoring ourselves in order to achieve security?

 

But it doesn’t even end with the wanting of security. We’re constantly seeking different highs. We don’t want to feel our suffering because we’re used to numbing our own pain.

 

In every moment we have the potential to choose ourselves for a greater good. But do we really choose ourselves, our highest self? Within the thousands of possibilities, there is essentially only one that is union with you and your highest self – or god. Buddhist believe that this choice is only possible through getting rid of all superficial feelings and possibilities of being and thinking without contemplation about executing all things that hinder you from your highest potential. That’s a mouth full to swallow. The truth is, I am just a seeker of enlightenment, and I hardly, truly live by any of these principles. But I work on myself every day to be a better person.

 

That is why I become aware

 

In order to be able to be closer to your highest self and god, you must become aware of your thoughts, actions and presence. To be aware –

 

To be aware of beauty

To be aware of life

To be aware of growth

To be aware of pain

To be aware of people

To be aware of flowers

To be aware of trees

 

To become aware of our personal desires and how they shape our perceptions and actions. Becoming aware allows you to open your mind to experience, think and feel! Begin to experience the world and don’t be ashamed of it and accomplishing your dreams. That is the beginning of accepting the Buddha into your life.

 

That is the beginning of becoming conscious of our wanting.

The is the beginning of realizing you’re a conscious, evolving, growing human being.

When Space for Existence Becomes the Only In-between in The After Life

 

The movement of water

like ice in my bones

lies beneath the lid of your eyes

stagnant water

melts the pines

needles coarse

he says, “we don’t have time”

he says, “why can’t it be simple”

I’m complicated

like a bird

I float like water

stagnant in breath

moving in motion

matter

Ravens are birds, blind in soul

they fly over me

above me

below me

watchful

I’m a bird

A rabbit

A swollen chord

directions to no where

I’m a bird

you’re a raven

I fly

that’s the only reason why

 

100 lessons learned in two years

Hello,

I am writing this letter to you because I want you to know the lessons you shared with me. And the unconditional love, appreciation, and respect I have for you as a human. The last two years of my life were not a mistake. They were the years I grew and evolved the most.

  1. You taught me about resilience
  2. You taught me the weight of my words
  3. You taught me about respect for men
  4. You taught me about control
  5. You taught me about respecting an individual’s boundaries
  6. You taught me about the ins and outs of green tea
  7. You taught me to follow my dreams
  8. You taught me strength and perseverance
  9. You taught me dedication for the things I loved
  10. You taught me creative expression
  11. You taught me vulnerability in the face of adversity
  12. You taught me yoga
  13. You taught me meditation
  14. You taught me to never raise my voice
  15. You taught me to seek help
  16. You taught me patience
  17. You taught me to overcome
  18. You taught me to dance
  19. You taught me to sing
  20. You taught me to listen to the music
  21. You taught me to phish
  22. You taught me alcest
  23. You taught me black metal
  24. You taught me the lessons of waiting
  25. You taught me the lessons of hearing
  26. You taught me the lessons of speaking
  27. You taught me to the lessons of commitment
  28. You taught me to never cuss
  29. You taught me to never yell
  30. You taught me to hold my tears longer
  31. You taught me to face my fears
  32. You taught me to laugh
  33. You taught me to search and to look at my issues
  34. You taught me to face my fears
  35. You taught me to climb mountains
  36. You taught me to love greater
  37. You taught me to tell the truth with love
  38. You taught me to stop fearing men
  39. You taught me to see innocence
  40. You taught me to forgive
  41. You taught me to believe in myself
  42. You taught me to listen – I hear you
  43. You taught me to communicate
  44. You taught me music – you showed me music
  45. You taught me what it means to stick with someone
  46. You taught me what real friendship looks like
  47. You taught me empathy
  48. You taught me compassion
  49. You taught me to understand others greater and with more compassion
  50. You forced me to love myself
  51. You taught me that greatness is easy
  52. You taught me that fighting for what you believed in is noble
  53. You taught me that strength is internal
  54. You taught me that words are daggers
  55. You taught me that your intentions were pure
  56. You taught me that men don’t want to hurt me
  57. You taught me culture
  58. You showed me science
  59. You showed me compassion
  60. You taught me that I had to become my own teacher
  61. You taught me that no one is inherently evil
  62. You taught me the kind of man I want
  63. You taught me what it means to stare someone in the eyes and know their soul
  64. You taught me that lessons come and go
  65. You taught me to let go
  66. You taught me to move forward
  67. You taught me to respect others
  68. You taught me table manners
  69. You taught me the importance of trust
  70. You taught me the importance of communication
  71. You taught me playing mind games is wrong
  72. You taught me controlling others is wrong
  73. You taught me supporting others is essential
  74. You taught me loving your partner through everything is essential
  75. You taught me that resentment is real and damaging
  76. You taught me impulsivity and anxiety are the antithesis of commitment
  77. You taught me that my education is primary
  78. You taught me about silence
  79. You taught me togetherness in separation
  80. You taught me to NEVER take for granted someone who gets you
  81. You taught me to dig deeper than I ever dug
  82. You taught me to lift weights and exercise
  83. You taught me my desire for peace
  84. You taught me that I never want to fight with another person again
  85. You taught me fighting is painful and horrible
  86. You taught me talking can help you
  87. You taught me I didn’t have to protect myself
  88. You taught me the difference between a flashback and reality
  89. You taught me to walk away when it is time
  90. You taught me to fight no matter how painful because you know that there is something beautiful
  91. You taught me that love takes work
  92. You taught me to go slow
  93. I learned my life passion
  94. You taught me to pursue art
  95. You taught me to create more and more and more
  96. You taught me to keep my word
  97. You taught me to never threaten a man
  98. You taught me jealousy is worthless
  99. You taught me insecurity will ruin your life
  100. You taught me to travel

 

When you feel love, act on it. Speak your heart. Be truthful. Remain open.

When you feel love, act on it. Speak your heart. Be truthful. Remain open.

 

The spiritual relationship

 

The spiritual relationship can give space for others to grow

The spiritual relationship does not seek to cling

The spiritual relationship love through infinity, time and space

The spiritual relationship is always grateful, always happy for others successes

The spiritual relationship is two children who grow up side by side

The spiritual relationship does not expect or complain

The spiritual relationship can cause deep pain and suffering

The spiritual relationship is a mirror of our darkness

The spiritual relationship seeks to heal

The spiritual relationship will challenge you and make you grow

 

We cannot identify with others until we have identified wholly with ourselves. The soul knows no bounds to the infinity of the nature of our own internal beauty. Love is intelligent and aware; it knows you better than you can seek to know yourself.

 

The Path to Love – Deepak Chopra

 

Proving loves existence is as simple as believing in the power of grace. Unifying our spirit with love will bring joy and peace beyond our wildest dreams. Giving up on our personal sagas and relinquishing fear for the potential of love is what everyone deserves.

 

Love is meant to heal

Love is meant to renew

Love is meant to make us safe

Love is meant to inspire us with its power

Love is meant to make us certain, without doubt

Love is meant to oust all fear

Love is meant to unveil immortality

Love is meant to bring peace

Love is meant to harmonize differences

Love is meant to bring us closer to God

 

This is my path to love:

 

I want to heal my past sorrows and emerge like a butterfly afraid of the betrayal and torture that was acted on me. I want to walk in the streets and feel bliss without the worry of a man attacking me in cold blood. I want to heal all past love. I want to renew my love for myself and the person I am meant to spend the rest of my life with. I want to renew my passion for the world. I want to feel safe with other men. I want to believe that men are meant to be creatures united with women. I want my love to be powerful, true, strong and real. I want to fall in love with someone who sees my true beauty. Someone who truly believes in me. This person guides me and ushers me in like a ray of light. Whenever we’re together he makes me laugh. He allows me to be my complete and total self. He is centered in Christ and faith. I want to adventure the world with someone who will drop everything and just adventure and explore with me. Who will do anything to try new things with me. A man who respects me and values my worth. Someone who will take on the world with me in full-force. Who isn’t afraid. Who is strong in his convictions, real and true to his word. A man who believes in change and growth and will climb any mountain with me. He believes in creating beautiful art and music. He can see beyond himself in any given situation and practices gratitude and peace. I want to feel love at all times.

 

I pray for love. I pray for self-love. I pray for hope. I pray for life.

Loving Peace like the Happy Buddha  

Sitting on the steps of the Chau Dai Bi “Compassion Temple,” a small Vietnamese woman approaches me and says, “Thank you for coming, are you happy like the buddha?” Her smiling face is plump and her cheeks are peached by the calming serenity and crisp air of the early November morning.

Happy like the Buddha. Out of all of the different buddha archetypes, I think the most resilient amongst the Chau Dai Bi temple is the happy buddha. This is easily noticeable by the way the patrons of this temple feed the foreigners, like myself, delicious vegetarian soup with smiling, happy faces.

Loving peace is a manifestation of happiness-  Saintliness is arguably the same as pursuing happiness. What makes someone resilient like the happy buddha? What separates those who experience happiness despite their circumstances against those who experience sadness? I think there is an internal need for self-satisfaction that creates an individual’s drive for purpose in life.

The only way to survive eternity is to appreciate each moment.

The totality of life is experienced within a multitude of moments and many of those moments are created by our personal actions and choices. With every morning light, we are brought to the realization that we are better served rejoicing the day than cursing it. Inevitably, your life is colored by who you are and who you want to be.

 

Witnessing Suffering as the Buddha

I believe the greatest lessons the Buddha teaches us are those about suffering. For it was Prince Siddhartha himself that would go into the capital city of his father’s kingdom to see how the other people lived. It is here amongst the people, that the Buddha witnessed the vicious cycle of suffering and developed a sincere wish to free them from their suffering. It was through lifting the veils of ignorance that the buddha was able to become a fully enlightened individual.

However, how do we apply the mythology of the Buddha to the struggles of our daily lives. The story of Siddhartha is a simple reminder that there is suffering in the world. I think that without suffering we would not begin to understand the complexity of nirvana or enlightenment. We must be broken to allow the light of our souls to shine through the desolate cracks.

 

I’ll Never Regret Breaking

 

I’ll never regret breaking. I’ll never regret living a moment of temporary insanity because those were the moments that made me wiser and stronger. I was once a person of moral indignation and judged so harshly those who were not comparable to my ideology of grace. I broke and grew wings. I was lost and spun and tucked and reborn again and again. I think that my pursuit of happiness began the day that I was split into two. I have felt and transformed pain so complex and unimaginable and I have survived.

I continue to find loving peace in the midst of my torment. I sit in temple and experience sensations and lifeless reactions to events that re-appear and haunt me every night. However, I transform my sorrow into awakening just like the buddha. I am alive because of the buddha.  Resiliency is a mere reaction to a need for complete and total survival. I survived the devil. I battled the wicked. I faced and braved the cold and stood with my arms open. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to open them the same way. I am cracked but I better than I have ever been before and I love myself. I love myself like I love the wind in the night as it graces the shivering trees in winter. I love myself the way the bear loves its fur in the cold, nestled in its homey den. I see that heaven is near me at all times, and I know and feel heaven because of my suffering. And I believe in angels the way I believe in butterflies. I feel God everyday becasuse of my suffering and he has blessed me with his voice. He is with me and guides me and I am in touch with him because in my need… I leaned and survived through him. Just like the buddha.

God I know that you are here. And I am yours and you’re mine. And my soul knows you’re here. And my soul will praise you.

The Man Who Waits for The Moon

The man who waits for the moon

There in the distance standing tall reaches a hand out below scattered by weary cannonballs. The moon stalks high in the tinder-laced sky and a twinkle of hope begins burning on the amber of tonight. It isn’t the beginning, nor the passage of all time, it is the reflection of our hearts at crimson sunshine. To defeat the obstacle laid at hand it will take nothing but a selfless man. There is man who walks and stalks along the stream softly whispering, “where did she go?”

He is a man that waits for the moon

In the tenderness of black, when all is dark and well, the man walks silently under a dark magic spell. There in his cheeks the day sweat lay idle like dew from the mountain. He looks upon the streaming shore and glances down. For all that was lost is not alive in streaming waters. Bending down on one knee, he looks into the shore-bank. Tired and eclipsed from the day. There is no man who loves the moon more. He misses her soft glow. But now there appears to be a blanked sky.

He is the man that waits for the moon

When will she come and take my wish? When will she come?

The moon is scared. She hides beneath the